what are you doing!!!

so i was thinking about how some dudes be acting when they go to the club and try to make love with girls they don't even know or say the most foolish things ever to a female. Most of the time i just try to help them out and be like bruh don't waste your time because you not about to get any from her or tell them you better come correct because every female don't take that "hey ma whats good" crap. for example when i went out with some of my home girls these dudes were trying to dance with them and speak soft in their ears and ask them stupid questions lmao, NO girl wants to hear that crap when they are dancing you better take that somewhere else. Another thing standing behind a girl waiting to dance is not going to get you no where either smh, bruh just ask the girl if she wants to dance instead of looking like a stalker behind her for hours, Im just trying to help ya'll out. One more thing that gets on my nerves is when dudes be asking me "is that you bruh", "that's your girl", "can i talk to her" smh YOOOO don't ask me all them questions when im dancing or whatever, go find out for yourself especially if you say you a "grown man".